Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things that you didn't do than by the ones you did do.

It is true. When I think back on my life (only 29 years of it!) I rarely ponder on the things I have done, but the things I did not do. Would I have changed a lot... no, not really. I would have enjoyed life more and not worried about the little things or made my job my top priority. However what I had done is what got me to where I am. Now I will probably never do anything close to what Ryan and Leslie did, but they are not the norm. They were strong enough so that they will never have to look back and be disappointed for not giving their friend a better quality of life or wondering what if. As Neal's doctor told him a year ago, the ones that love you will be happy to give you a kidney in exchange for getting you back to your old self. I am slowly becoming a believer of the things happen for a reason theory.

I got to see Ryan, Les and Connor today. I guess I really saw Connor most of the time. He is just too cute. We had a lot of fun if only for an hour. Sorry Ryan and Leslie for ignoring you! Ryan is doing good and continuing to push himself. Leslie is taking care of the household. Connor has his casts off now and is back to his skateboard. I guess he was pretty unhappy yesterday, but I think he is already adjusting to the bar between his legs. Who wouldn't be unhappy the first day you attach a bar to both of your feet? One day we will tell Connor about all of this and we will have to show him a picture for him to believe it! Below is his picture at 3 months. He is gonna be a heart breaker. Neal was not quite up to a ride in the car, but hopefully we can all get together later in the week.

We had some visitors today as well. Raegan was able to put a smile on Neal's face, which was great to see. She was very energetic when she walked through the door! Mom and Mike dropped off some food and I have already ate half of it. Neal is still very tired. He tried to sleep upstairs yesterday, but could not get comfortable so he is back on the couch. He is moving around much better but still having some pain. We are hoping to meet with the Dispatch early this week. I am heading back to work this week. Neal has a blood draw Monday and Thursday and an appointment for follow up from his seizure on the 31st. Other than that we will just be relaxing at home.